Destine's World

My Kids

2010-05-06T16:21:00.000-07:00

Christian 14 years old and never hangs up the phone before he says, "I love you, mama." It does not matter who he is around.

Alycia 12(13 in 18 days)- the sweetest, best girl in the world. She would help anyone, and do anything for you. She cleans the house all the time, and expects nothing in return.

Riain 10 years old, always comes right to me when he comes out to the playground and gives me a kiss and a hug. WHen he walks by my room, he will flash me the I love you sign through the window.

THis is just a few things that make them the most wonderful, loving, and amazing children in the world.

I am so lucky to be their MOM!!!

Great product

2010-04-28T17:21:00.000-07:00

Here is a great idea for those of you mom's out there. I know even though we have older kids, we are ordering a few because Brian is friends with the guy whose friend created it. It was featured on The View.

Check it out!!!

http://www.goodnitelite.com/index.php?page=testimonials

Lyci's 13th b-day

2010-04-28T14:57:00.000-07:00

Help... I need theme ideas/ any ideas for Lyci's party. We are going big this year. I really want to make this a party for her and all her guests to remember. It is her first boy/girl party as a young adult.

Here is what I know for sure-

1. we will have a DJ for a couple of hours.

2. It will NOT be at our house.

3. I want to have a game that all about Lyci. I was thinking of having a Jeopardy game or something like that, and all the questions are about her.

4. Lyci has insisited on having a chocolate fountain and a cake with chocolate icing.

So, please overload me with ideas, websites and anything else party related.

I can not beleive that she is almost 13, I want to celebrate her and what a special young woman she is becoming. I am lucky to be her mom.

How come I have not bought from here before?

2010-04-08T16:30:00.000-07:00

I spent a little time on Etsy. I have never really looked there for much, but now I am addicted. I bought a sign from there that looks similar to this.

I am also in love with this bird's nest. I want to have all of our names put on one.

I am in the process of looking for cute ideas to put on the bookshelves of our entertainment center. I want things besides books. These are a few things that I will have on it. If you have any ideas, please share. Also, I am still looking for new dishes. Let me know of any websites with cute dishes.

On another note, Brian is starting his flight lessons next week. He goes up for his intro flight Sunday morning. I am nervous, but so excited for him. This will be a great hobby for him. He loves flying. I will post some pics of him in his plane. He is taking his lessons in a plane that has a parachute, so that makes me feel better. Please pray for his safety and for my nerves to stay calm.

Free at last... but no pic

2010-03-26T17:58:00.000-07:00

I had my cast taken off yesterday. Needless to say that my leg looked nasty. I took a pic for Brian, but I will no post it and gross you out.

I was very nervous. A ladt I did not know had a saw very close to my skin. Riain went with me and was sitting across the room, watching with excitment. This is the kind of thing he loves. So, he watching me and the nurse, then he must have seen the fear in my face. He walked over to me, grabbed my hand, and started pushing my hair to the side of my face. THen he bent down and kissed my forehead and said, "It is ok Mommy, you will be ok." KIsses me again and tells me to think of chocolate and bunnies. It was one of the sweetest things anyone has ever said to me or done for me. I love that boy!!!!

So my cast is off, and my foot feels strange. I had a pedi yesterday, so that felt better. My ankle is really sore and my calf is weak. I have lost a lot of muscle mass, and it I think it will take a while to built back up. I am glad to be wearing two shoes again. Hopefully my foot is better. My bones did not fuse back together, so if they keep giving issues, surgery is an option. I hope it does not come to that. Only time will tell.

I just want to take a minute and thank my family and friends for helping me over the last 6 weeks. I love you all!!

Broken Foot and Baseball

2010-02-13T16:03:00.001-08:00

Having a broken foot is a pain in the you know what. I walk slow, and when I walk alot it, it hurts. Brian likes this b/c this means my shopping issue will be put on hold for at least 6 weeks. I am having a lot of trouble sleeping, but the doctor has given me some pain meds. Driving is an issue, but I am working it out. Brian has been driving me around and waiting on me, what a sweet man. Also, showering, not so much fun. Brian has to help me, and trust me it is not very sexy. Five and a half weeks to go.

Baseball...

Riain has decided to be a baseball player. We went and signed up, bought all the equipment and are ready for the season. I can not wait to see him in his uniform. He will look adorable. We are on the same team as some friends, which will make the season way better. Can't wait Karri!!!!! Be ready for tons of pics.

So, lets hope for a quick healing foot and a good season of baseball.

A dish hunting I will go...

2010-02-07T14:16:00.000-08:00

I am in desperate need of new dishes. I have white ones from Pottery Barn that my sister, Val, gave me a long time ago. As classic as white ones are... I am ready for some color. I am not sure exactly what I am looking for, but I know I will know it when I see it. So if you have any great sites with dishes, send it to me.

Take the pledge with me

2010-01-25T08:54:00.000-08:00

I am sitting here tonight catching up on Oprah. The show I just finished watching has my stomach in knots. The show was about texting and driving. Here is what I learned.

1. If you are on the phone talking, you are 4x more likely to be in a crash.
2. Talking and driving is equal to having 4 beers and driving.
3. Texting and driving is worse then drinking and driving.
4. If you aren texting and driving, you are 8x more likely to be in a crash.

The families on the show, did not have to lose thier loved ones. I sit here thinking how many times, I have run off the road, or crossed the center lines because I was distracted by my phone. I realize how lucky I am to have not hurt myself, someone else or my children. I am pledging to not text on my phone while I am driving. I realize that message is not worth my life, someone else's and especially my children.

Brian and I have taken the pledge, join us, take the pledge and pass it on!!!

Log on to take the pledge-

http://www.oprah.com/questionaire/ipledge.html?id=4

Kitchen Pics and Christian Pics

2010-01-07T17:26:00.000-08:00

Here is a pic of the kitchen color. Lyci and I knocked this one out in 1 day. We are changing all the light and plug fixtures also. These are of course before and after. The blue is my fav. It is very calming.

We are sitting right now, about to watch the Texas v. Alabama game, and of course Chrisitan being the huge fan, had to go and get his game outfit on.

GO TEXAS!!!!!

We Painted!!!!

2009-12-27T19:49:00.000-08:00

I got a bug to paint. Of course Brian was not into it, he is a firm believer of, leave it to the professionals. Of course Lyci and I did not agree, so we painted. We had to paint, a new washer and dryer were being delivered. So we painted, and painted, and painted.

We painted the hallway to the laundry room, the laundry room, the mudroom and the dining room. Tomorrow, we will finish the mudroom(we ran out of paint), the kitchen and the foyer.

Here are some before and after pics.

Laundry room before-

Laundry room after- with the new washer and dryer

Dining room before-

Dining room after-

Merry X-Mas Eve

2009-12-24T06:13:00.000-08:00

Things to do today-

1. bake cornbread/sausage stuffing
2. bake cookies and decorate with the kids
3. take kids to the movies
4. go pick up MY x-mas present
5. EAT!!!!
6. open 1 gift
7. watch Brian read to the kids, Twas the Night Before Christmas
8. go to bed and barely sleep until tomorrow

MERRY CHRISTMAS

Bootcamp...

2009-11-04T17:55:00.000-08:00

Day 3 of bootcamp...

I am tired...

I am sore...

I am craving chocolate...

I am out of shape...

I feel AWESOME!!!

Long time... no blog

2009-11-02T18:04:00.000-08:00

Ok, so I have been a little lazy on my blog sessions. I do however update my facebook daily.

Life in the Nelson household is as usual crazy. We have been so busy trying to get the school year started and learning how to manage three kids in sports. By the way, a very difficult task.

Football season is over and we managed to finish the year with zero(that's right, you read it correctly, ZERO) wins for Riain or Christian's team. Lyci has enjoyed her cheerleading, and is looking forward to cheering for boys basketball, but not girls. :) The boys are about to start wrestling.

As I sit here and write this, I can not help but smile and think about how crazy life is. I would not change a thing about it. I run myself ragged, but am loving every moment with my family. I am so thankful to have such amazing people in my life.

A husband that loves me not matter how much I spend. :)

Kids that drive me crazy and almost to tears sometimes. :)

My grandpa that even though he is far away, is always close in our hearts.

A mom that takes the kids when I need a break ( like this weekend)

My divine friend Karri- that interupted her day to go and pick Lyci up from school when she was not feeling well.

My thoughtful friend Liberty, who knows that teachers do not have any time to go and get lunch, so she brings it to me.

Michele and Dene'- who I can always sneak to during the day and vent about whatever is on my mind.

I love all of ya'll!!! You make my life better just having you in it.

Ok... now that I have gotten mushy and am about to ball... I will leave you with some pics of my family. They are crazy, but they are all MINE.

Our Furry Babies

2009-09-27T12:55:00.000-07:00

Here are the animals. We are going to be sending our lab Bell away for a few months for training. She is so strong, that I have a hard time walking her.

Patton, is obsessed with any type of ball. Is is funny to watch. He actually looks like he is playing soccer.

Dallas(cat), well, she is a cat, what else is there to say. She is a loner, until she wants you to love on her.

They add a lot of love and irritation to our house.

New Family Traditions-

2009-09-26T12:32:00.000-07:00

The pic has nothing to do with the post, except how fast they grow up. This was back in 2002. Seems like a life time ago. This pic was taken by my wonderful brother in law, Wayne. We used to go and celebrate 4th of July and Thanksgiving with them. He captured so many amazing shots of the kids. He had a knack for getting the perfect shot at the perfect time. Thanks Wayne!!!!

I found these in a magazine and knew I had to share.

1. Celebrate half birthdays- grill hamburgers and hot dogs, then cut them in half. Drink half glasses of soda, and enjoy a half chocolate/half vanilla cake for your half birthday.

2. Valentine's Day Mistletoe- hang crape hearts around your house and anyone caught underneath must kiss, or hug(if your kids refuse to kiss, like Christian and Riain do).

3. Topsy-turvy day- cake for breakfast, and other backward surprises all day

4. Turkey parade- we all know wait for the turkey is part of Thanksgiving, when the bird is ready, hold a parade with the family following the bird. Musical pots and pans to add to the mood.

5. Yes Day!!(this one can be dangerous :) Every time you tell your kids no to going or doing something, have them write it down and put it in the yes jar. Once a month choose one and everyone must got along with it.

I love all of these. My kids are too old for some, but I think I may choose one or two to try. Try these out for your family and start a new silly tradition for your children to remember. At the end of the day, the memories you have made are all that matters. Time goes by fast and kids grow up quickly. Savor every moment, breathe in every moment, soak up every moment!!!!

The Rain has left...

2009-09-23T15:53:00.000-07:00

It rained and rained and rained. There was horrible flooding. We have been out of school all week. As a mom, I have loved this time with the kids, as a teacher I am dreading getting back into the swing of school. We do not go back tomrrow, the kids do not, I will.

We are under a boil water advisory. Needless to say, that is pain.

I-20 which is how Brian gets to work was shut down until today. It has been very crazy down here. But we are safe, and our house is safe. Our friends are safe. We were lucky, the next county over lost 9 people due to flooding. We are praying for their families.

Riain's turn

2009-09-13T10:26:00.000-07:00

Riain's team lost yesterday also. He played well. He caught a pass and made a 2 yd gain. He has never caught during a game before. It was not meant for him, but if he had not caught it, then it would have been picked off. So way to go Riain!!!! He did get hit on his knee, so we were alittle worried. He was limping, but finished the game. We iced it and have made him stay off of it. Giving it until Tuesday, and if it still hurts, we will head back to dr. The team is getting better, maybe we will actually score next week.

Go Gators!!!

2009-09-13T10:15:00.001-07:00

We lost both 7th and 8th grade games, but Lyci cheered her heart out and did a fabulous job. Christian played ok, he did not make any great plays, but what do you do? Here are tons of pics from yesterday.

Lyci looks so cute in her uniform. She was awarded the first spirit stick of the season. They said she always smiles and never complains. That's my girl.

Innocence at its best...

2009-09-12T16:20:00.000-07:00

Driving home from Christian and Lyci's game, we were talking about a show we watch called Supernatural. In the show, the world has come to the apocalyse, and the devil is ready to start his trouble. Anyways, Riain missed the part of us talking about the show. He was asking all kinds of questions. His voice getting filled with a little more worry. I said the devil had taken off a human as his vessel and Riain was nervous. I said Riain, we are talkiing about a show and his busted out laughing and crying at the same time. He thought this was really happening. We calmed him down and he was ok. I cried, he cried it was so funny. He is still so innocent. Bless his heart:)

Taylor Swift

2009-09-04T14:05:00.000-07:00

Lyci and I had a great night last night and went and saw Taylor Swift. She put on a good concert and is a great live singer. We got home late, but it was worth it.

Football tomorrow and then a long weekend. So exctied to not be working on Monday.

First Card

2009-08-29T12:53:00.000-07:00

Lyci has a birthday party to go to tonight, so we decided to make a card and not buy. Lyci and I made it together. I think it turned out pretty good. Brian thinks it looks nice. I used my cricut for all the letters and cut outs. I love that thing, one of the best things Brian has bought me. I would recommend it to anyone who scrapbooks. Then I used a sticker maker in place of glue.

Football, Baseball and Lyci

2009-08-28T18:30:00.000-07:00

Football...

-scrimmage game
-lost 32-0
-team played better than last game
-Riain helped coach on the field, see pic and u will see it in action
-Just in case I have not mentioned it this season, I LOVE FB SEASON
-Riain is in the long white socks-red jersey

Baseball-
-Braves lost
-Riain's first game
-17 rows behind homeplate
-Jason almost caught a foul ball

Lyci-
-Love her in her clothes
-first time in uniform is tomorrow night
-just want to squeeze her, she is wonderful!!!!!

Blog Tag

2009-08-23T04:37:00.000-07:00

A couple of days ago I was tagged by Liberty. Now I have to tell 10 things about myself. This is hard to do, but I will do my best.

1. I love my job, but would do anything to be a stay at home mom again.

2. I really want to make the time to scrapbook.

3. I am addicted to tv, we have a TIVO with every tv in our house.

4. Texas is where I want to live the most, maybe it will happen some day.

5. Kinda sad, this next one, but it popped into my head. It has been 10 and a half years since Desi died and I still miss her as much today, as the year it happened.

6. I have a big mouth. I know you are thinking, no way Destine, not you. But yes it is true. i have a tendancy to say what I am thinking, when I should not. Another teacher on my team said they were glad I was around, cause what they are thinking and too scarred to say, is coming out of my mouth. I am not sure if that is a good thing or not :) I need a strainer over my mouth sometimes, I say something and in my mind I am grabbing at the words trying to make them come back. Oh well, I guess there are worse things to be then out spoken.

7. If Brian would let me, I would have way too many dogs. I just love dogs and the love they give. Having a pet really makes your family better.

8. When I retire, I want to bred and show English Bulldogs. I have this idea, of Brian and I loading up an RV with our dogs and traveling from show to show. Of course, this will never happen, b/c Brian is not crazy like I am.

9. I am hopefully getting a new car around Christmas. We desperately need something bigger, the kids are crammed in my little Accord.

10. Lets see, this needs to be a good one since it is the last, oh I got it. Brian is my favorite perosn on this planet. After 12 years of marriage, I still get butterflies when he kisses me. Our kids are so used to us just totally in make out sessions, they ignore it... well actually Riain says, "OHHHH making out with teacher" which usually makes us laugh. They have grown up seeing us being very affectionate with eachother. I think that is why they are affectionate. I love that we are this way. I can not say enough how much I love to be around him.

Well there you go. Talk to you soon.

First Scrimmage

2009-08-17T18:35:00.000-07:00

Saturday was our first scrimmage game. Riain played pretty well, but as a team it was painful. We are on a team with only 3 kids that have ever played before. Riain being one of them. I think by the time games start we will be a little better. Riain is on the field the entire game. Once we play a full game he will be exhausted.

Here is a pic from the end of out first game. Do not worry, this is the beginning of our season for all three and there will be tons of pics. I am also going to try and do some video from the games too.

For those of you who did not know,Brian is coaching Riain's team this year. He just said to me yesterday how much he loved it, and how many other Dad's get to be on the field when their son is playing. I know Riain loves it as much as Brian does.

Life Then... Life Now...

2009-08-15T18:12:00.000-07:00

Then...Mommy I want a dinosaur. Now...I want a new cell phone.

Then...I want a four pack chicken nugget. Now...I want an 8 piece.

Then...Mommy, I need bubble bath. Now...Mom, I am out of shaving cream.

Then...Barney's I love you, you love me. Now...I need 500 dollars in ones, it's time to ball out.

Then...I want a kiss. Now...I want 5 dollars.

Then...Can I please have some juice. Now...Mom, get me a frapiccino.

Then...Mommy I need your help. Now...No thanks, I can do it myself.

I miss back then!!!!

Last day of summer!!!

2009-08-07T13:22:00.000-07:00

Here is how I spent my day.

1. Haircut ( best haircuts I have ever gotten, with tip 25 dollars, thanks Jennifer)
2. Lunch at Chipotle with all 3 kids
3. Makeup at MAC
4. shopping at LUSH
5. Starbucks
6. Macy's got Lyci Tommy Hilfiger shorts for 9 dollars
7. Publix for dinner
8. Tonight Football ( Riain is in red jersey, black pants with his back to us)

Back to work on Monday...

Weight Loss

2009-07-28T10:05:00.000-07:00

I have not talked much about this, but for the past two months, I have been dieting. As of today, I have lost 24 pounds. 3 and a half inches off my tush, 2 inches off my tummy and 1 and a half off my bust.

24 pounds done and 30 more to go.

Football Practice

2009-07-27T18:54:00.000-07:00

Tonight was the first night of practice. League rules say they can not wear pads the first four days. So next Monday, we will be completely dressed out. Be ready for tons and tons of pics.

Riain has always been on the small side. But tonight, his coach came to me and asked if Riain has been spending a lot of time on the couch. I laughed. He really has bulked up since last season. Pray that Riain's knee holds out. We are going to the orthopedic next Tuesday just to be sure. Hopefully his LCL has healed from his injury from last season. If you look hard on his left leg, you can see his knee brace he has to wear.

Doesn't he have the biggest smile on his face? It is priceless.

Football Begins...

2009-07-27T07:14:00.000-07:00

Today is the first day of football practice for Riain. We are really excited, but it is alot of work. Four nights a week for 2 hours. It is very boring. The games are great, but practice not so much. We will be video taping all of the games of the boys and also Lyci's cheerleading. I think the Brian's idea is to post it on UTUBE so all of you can see them play. So be on the lookout for that. I will post it on here when we have footage. I will post some pics later this week of practice.

El Vacation

2009-07-21T07:43:00.000-07:00

We have been back since Saturday night and it has been non stop readjusting to life. Our vacation was so much fun. The condo we stayed in was great. Three bedrooms, 3 and a half baths. A patio overlooking the ocean. A great place to stay.

The days were filled with sun, sand, swimming, and jet skiing. Our nights with eating, drinking, and sand crabbing. The kids loved the beach. They played in the water all day. It was so nice to look out and see and hear the ocean.

THe kids loved jet skiing. Brian was so good with them, he let Riain drive. Lyci was not allowed to drive due to her always crashing everything she drives. She is known for her fast speed and not keeping control of what she drives. So he opted out of risking her crashing the jet skiis.

We has the ocean of course to swim in and then at the condo we stayed at, there were three other pools we could swim in. THat was cool, b/c if you got tired of fighting the waves, there was always calm water to dive into.

One night we took the kids to a go kart track. Riain had a blast, Lyci on the other hand was so afraid. This was the first time she had ever been on a track racing with other people. I tried to take pics, but they did not capture how she felt. THe first time she passed us, she was almost in tears. All she yelled was I do not like this over and over again. We felt so bad for her, but she stuck it out and finished it. When I met her at the end of her ride, she ran into my arms and cried. Then Daddy came over and she left me for him... he always makes her feel better.
She went back a few days later, we went back and she loved it and enjoyed driving.

Most nights, we went out crab hunting. What you do is get a flashlight, or in Riain's case a helmet with a light in it. Then you get a net and chase after these little sand crabs and try to catch them. It is so funny to watch, there are adults and kids alike chasing these crabs. So you catch them and then let them go. It is actually very fun, and I held one in my hand, :)

We ate at lots of great places. One place was called the Hangout. It is an open restuarant that overlooks the beach. The breeze was awesome coming off the ocean. The food was great and we just loved the atmosphere. There were tons of things for the kids to do. They had foozeball games, a huge sand pile and a bubble foam party. We cannot wait to go back there.

We also ate at a place called Lulu's, which is a place owned by Jimmy Buffett's sister. This was also another place where the restaurant was open. THe wait was 2 hours, but we had fun waiting. THere are numerous places to get drinks, and also a window to order appetizers for while you wait. There was sand and live music. The wait was so much fun.

THis is us at LULU's!!!

THere is so much more to tell, but I will leave that for another day. We are looking forward to going back down there next year. But we are thinking of staying 2 weeks, and renting a house instead of staying in a condo.

Vacation 2 days away

2009-07-09T11:28:00.000-07:00

We are leaving for our overdue vacation. The kids are so excited to be spending 7 days at the beach. Yes you read correct 7 days away from home and on the beach. My mom is keeping the dogs, which is a huge help, considering sending them to the doggie camp would be 400 dollars and I can think of many more ways to spend that money, so thanks MOM!!!!

The kids and I have been packing and cleaning. It is a huge task to get everyone ready and make sure nothing is left behind. There are the normal clothes, and bathing needs, then they need movies for the drive, IPODS, the Wii and footballs and tennis rackets... the list goes on and on. We have a truck and are worried there will not be enough room. As for me, I have about 3 lists going for different things that need to be done. I think packing for vacation is stressful. Maybe that is just me.

Some things we are planning on doing- parasailing, drinking, jet skiing, dolphin seeing, drinking, going to the Blue Angels practice, did I mention drinking?

When We get back I will post tons of pics and give ya'll the run down on how much fun we had and how tan we are all now.

Riain's new talent

2009-07-03T07:20:00.000-07:00

When Riain went off to camp, they learned survival skills. Just in case their plan ever gets shot down, ( like I ever want to think of that). Anyways, one thing he learned was how to build different types of fire. Now all he wants to do is build fires in the back yard. I think he knows 6 different types of fires to build. I thought there was only one kind, but according to Riain I am wrong. So here are aome pics I took on the first night we let him build a fire. The boy with him is our neighbor Dawson. Then of course, one of Brian and myself.

A camp made for Riain

2009-06-14T16:34:00.000-07:00

Today was a sad, scratch that, heart and gut wrenching day for Brian and I. We drove Riain to Huntsville, Alabama to go to his first ever summer camp. This is the first time Riain has ever been away from home for a long period of time without a family member around. He will be participating in Aviation Challenge from today Sunday the 14th until Friday the 19th. We go and pick him up and get to watch his graduation.

This camp was made for this boy. They do flight simulations, pilot training, evasive maneuvering, and much more. He was in heaven. I think there was a little nervousness before, but when they called his groups name, he was gone. I had to chase him down and tell him bye. He got his book and pen from his counselor, and that was it.

Of course, I kept looking back and walking slow and trying to wave. He looked back only once, and I waved and sent him the I love you sign, then we loaded up in the car and drove away. My stomach was sick and I was nervous and right now as I write this am still watching my phone, trying not to cry, waiting for his first call home.

We will blog when he gets back and of course I will post more pics of graduation. Pray that he is safe and has the time of his life. I miss him already. H

Here are some pics we got to take before we left. One is of course where he will be sleeping, one is of his locker, the door to his room and who it is named after, Riain in his flight suite(OMG... he looks so cute), and of his counselor and team members. There is also one of his armband.

The things boys do for love...

2009-06-07T16:23:00.000-07:00

Brian and Riain love Lyci so much, that when she was bored they let her do this to them. That is real love, or are they trying to tell me something?

Schools out for summer!!!

2009-06-05T16:45:00.000-07:00

Today was the kids last day of school. I on the otherhand have to work Monday and Tuesday. We are so glad the year is over. The kids have had another great year. We have been blessed in the fact, they have had some many wonderful teachers.

Riain had his awards day on Wednesday. He recieved A/B honor roll. He missed all A's by 2 points. He was very upset, but we are so proud of him. Lyci had her awards today. She also got all A/B honor roll. This is a huge honor in middle school. Her 6th grade team has about 400 kids and only only 50 made A/B honor. Lyci also got another award. She was choosen out of her 100 kid team to receive the Math academic achievment award. This is such an amazing honor. She really struggled in math in 5th grade and her she is a year later getting an award for it. Her math teacher was amazing. She really made it possible for Lyci to understand and enjoy math. We are hoping Lyci gets her next year also. Lyci is such a great girl.

Christian leaves for Florida tomorrow. He is flying down there by himself, this will be the first time for him to fly. I think I am nore nervous then he is. Lyci leaves for her 6th year at Camp Braveheart. So, I will have just Riain for a week. Lyci will get back on the 12th and then Riain leaves for his camp on the 14th. THat week I will have only her. I am glad to have some one on one time with each kid. When Christian gets back, I am going to take him somewhere for the weekend.

Busy start to the summer. THANK GOD FOR SUMMER BREAK!!!!

12 Things We Love about Lyci

2009-05-24T13:28:00.000-07:00

Today Lyci turns 12. So I thought I would share some of the things we love about her.

1. She is the biggest helper in the world.
2. She is cute.
3. She snorts sometimes when she laughs.
4. When she sleeps she snores, but she will never admit it.
5. She has the biggest heart.
6. Family is very important to her.
7. She loves to be at home.
8. She loves to eat out as much as we do.
9. When she does not feel well, laying in mommy and daddy's bed makes her feel better.
10. She loves animals.
11. Sometimes when she talks, she says things mommy would say.
12. She loves to sit on her daddy's lap, she sits with him everyday.

These are just a few things that make her the sweetest, and most loved girl in our house. She is growing up and although it is fast, we are having a blast with her.

Today, we went to lunch at Pappasitos. Lyci took her friend along with us. Then Lyci, Taylor and I went and got our toes done. Last was the traditional birthday cake and singing.

All in all a good day I hope.

She Bangs...

2009-05-18T13:55:00.000-07:00

Lyci is sporting some new bangs. I think they are a little uneven, but after they are fixed, she will look cute. She is unsure, but I like them. It really changes what she looks like.

We walked for Wayne...

2009-05-17T16:11:00.000-07:00

Friday night was Relay for Life walk. We raised money. I danced for the talent show. New Georgia raised 1800 dollars for Relay for Life. The kids carried a sign to show everyone who they were walking for. The kids and I went out and We Walked for Wayne!!! WE LOVE YOU WAYNE!!

Am I smarter than a 5th grader?

2009-05-13T17:20:00.000-07:00

We shall see next year. I am skipping 4th and heading straight to 5th. With all the economic issues, schools being hit too, we are losing teachers and increasing class sizes. Since this is happening, I will be teaching 5th grade next year. Fifth is a hard grade for many reason. Let me name a few...

1. They have smart mouths.
2. The DRAMA is crazy!!!
3. I can only do third grade math.
4. The kids have to pass reading and math CRCT.
5. They have smart mouths, wait did I say that already?
6. They are taller then I am.
7. Well I know there are more, but I am getting depressed listing them all.

I think I will manage pretty well. But as you can tell I am nervous about the math. I guess I will spend all summer studying up on it.

Cheerleading and TaeKwonDo

2009-05-09T15:46:00.000-07:00

Lyci is now officially a Scoggins Gator cheerleader!!! We got the call last night and are so happy. She worked really hard and it is an awesome thing to see her try her best and reach her goal. Way to go Lycibug!!!!

Riain took his first Tae Kwon Do class today. He was so excited and looked so cute in his uniform. I think this will be a good activity for him to particulate in.

I know my children are good hearted, kind, affectionate and love their family very much. But there are times when others get to see this gentle and compassionate side of them. As Riain's instructor was helping him put his belt on, he noticed a yellow bracelet on his wrist. This is the conversation I heard.

Instructor- We usually do not allow any type of jewelry on during class.

Riain- Well, this is how I support my uncle, who was just diagnosed with cancer. I do not ever take it off. I will not take it off until he is cured.

Instructor- Since that is what it stands for then you may keep it on.

Riain- Thank you

Then he turned and smiled at me. I was so proud to be his mom at that moment. The fact that he was standing up for something he believes in.

The pic is not good, I will get better ones next week.

Milestones

2009-05-05T15:30:00.000-07:00

As a parent we are faced with many different milestones. There are ones that make you proud, like the first time your baby says "mama." Then there are the ones that make you question yourself, like when find an empty beer bottle in their rooms. Last, there are the ones that break your heart, like today when Lyci looked at me and said, "Mommy you do not have to walk me in." My heart was broken.

I guess I should start with the conversation at home. We were getting ready for cheerleading tryouts, day 2. I asked if she wanted me to walk her in and she said yes. So, of course I was ready to complete my mommy duties of walking in and making sure things were good. Yesterday which was the first day of practice, she was stuck to me. I only left when I got the look that it was good to go. Lyci is such a mommy and daddy's girl, and is not embarassed to have me walk her places. She reminds me a lot of me.

Lyci is now a girl who walks into places on her own or with her friends. It is a fact of life, that I do not need to hold her hand for everything. I just hope there are still moments that she wants me to.

Renaissance Festival Finally!!!!

2009-04-29T14:31:00.000-07:00

We have been planning on going to this thing for years and we finally decided to do it. We loaded up the kids and went to Fairburn Georgia. It was not too far of a drive which is nice since Brian drives all week. We had a great time.

The first thing we did was go to a comedy show put on by pirates. It was supposed to be PG, needless to say, it was not. Well Riain did not get the jokes, but Lyci sure did. Every time those stupid pirates did something or said something (yes there were actions happening), she would turn around and give me this look. I am just not sure when this happened, her being able to get jokes. I mean, we have not been able to spell talk for a while, but jokes. It was horrible, but I thought it was hilarious. The jokes, not Lyci getting them.

We saw a joust, and a bunch of people in costumes. There are some people out there, that like to dress up. There were tons of things to see, and some amazing artwork. Oh and the food was great. The kids each ate a GIANT turkey leg, and I tried the fried green beans. They were awesome!!!! All in all, we had a great time.

On another note, Lyci almost broke her finger last Friday. We had it xrayed and it is just really bad jammed. She has to wear a finger brace, and boy is she milking it. Please pray for her to heal, she has cheer leading tryouts starting Monday. We are hoping she will be all better.

So to recap:

almost broken finger
people in costumes making crude, but funny jokes

In the words of Riain, "Good Times, Good Times)

Fishing Nelson Style

2009-04-19T15:07:00.000-07:00

Load kids up in the truck.
Drive 1 hour and 15 minutes away.
Arrive at Rainbow Ranch where everything you need is supplied.
Fish for 2 hours.
Riain catches 1 fish.
Lyci catches 1 fish.
Daddy catches 2 fish and his shoe. :)
Mom catches it all on the camera.
Have the workers clean and cut the fish.
Pay 70 dollars.
Take the fish to Gamma's house b/c the boys are the only ones who eat fish and I do not know how to cook it.
Come home.

That is how we fish in the Nelson house.

FYI- Christian was grounded, that is why he is not there.

Fort Nelson

2009-04-16T16:44:00.000-07:00

Riain and Dawson(our neighbor) had a sleep over the other night. When I went to bed the living room looked as it should. When I woke up to let our new puppy Bell out this is what I found...

I knew I had to get a few shots. So there I am at 5 in the morning tiptoeing around the house looking for camera to snap a few shots. These are the moments I will look back on in 20 years and miss. REMINDER- Enjoy every moment with them!!

Forever since last blog...

2009-04-15T18:07:00.000-07:00

I know it has been forever since I blogged last. Down here in wonderful Georgia nothing has changed. The drive is still killing Brian (I think we are going to have to move to Atlanta), the kids are wonderful and only 7 weeks until school is over. I will have the kiddos log on and blog about thier trip this weekend. Here are some pics we took a while back. I love all the pics of Brian and the kids, they were taken at Hard Rock in Atl. Then of course some of the doggies.

Work has been going good. I am still unsure of where I will be teaching next year or what grade I will be in. The schools have been hit hard, just like most businesses out there. They are making class sizes bigger and cutting back on some salaries. I can not wait to here where I will be, it is nerve racking to not know, so I can plan.

The kids ( like I said earlier are great), are ready for summer. It is hard to believe that Christian is about to be at the end of his seventh grade year. Time is going so fast. He has already been on a "date". They went to the movies, day time and her family was there. Still it was a huge deal.

Lyci is entering the boy crazy zone. She has told me of two boys that she is interested in. This is the first time that she has been really interested in anyone. We hope this will just be a preview of what is to come, God knows Brian (or myself) is not ready for this phase. Other then that, she is just such a joy to have in our lives.

Riain, well what can I say. I have started a flipbook of his favorite and best saying. This kid can just pull things out of his head that fit any moment and make you laugh so hard. By the way, he had 3 plans to rescue the captain of that boat from the pirates before the Navy did. And yes, they were good ones. :) That is him, no time for Saturday morning cartoons, he prefers the Military Channel.

I guess that is all that is new here. Just a quick update from the Nelsons. On another note, I just want to send out thoughts to my brother in law Wayne. We love you and are praying constantly.

The Greatest Show on Earth

2009-02-22T12:30:00.001-08:00

Saturday we went to the circus. It was really fun. There were elephants and tigers. Dogs doing cool tricks. Girls in skimpy clothes. The ringmaster was a sexist. Why you ask? He was singing a song and was like look at her face, her figure... I was like what did say? All in all it was a lot of fun. I gasped alot, I think more then the kids. I would recommend going. We went and saw Ringley Bros, and Barney and Bailey. It was a great family outing.

The first picture is the kids on Marta. It is very ghetto. This was a treat because Lyci did not cry. Usually she is on top of Brian with her head buried in his chest with tears in her eyes. I guess she is getting used to the train.

13 things I know about Christian

2009-02-22T12:30:00.000-08:00

1. He has the softest lips when he kisses your check.

2. He loves football!!

3. Christian brings his brother and sister to rolling laughs almost instantly.

4. He loves wrestling.

5. Christian's favorite football team is The Dallas Cowboys.

6. He loves Chipotle.

7. He always orders Coke when we eat out.

8. Believe it or not... he still wants to be a Paleontologist when he grows up.

9. He has blue eyes.

10. He is a ladies man, (you should see all of his contacts on his phone, there are a lot of girls)

11. He LOVES AC DC.

12. Well actually he loves any hard rock.

13. At 12:32 PM Christian officially became a teenager.

Happy Birthday Christian!!! I love you so much.

Valentine's Day

2009-02-15T16:43:00.001-08:00

Valentine's day was pretty typical around here. Brian had to work all day, Christian went to a friend's house, so Lyci, Riain and I decided to go shopping. I bought nothing for myself, but we bought Lyci this Juicy Couture bag she has been eyeing for a year. Riain got some under armour clothes(which is the new kid obsession). He now has shoes, shirts, hats, gym bag and shorts that are all under armour. I eyed this table from pottery barn that I have been trying to talk myself into. I need to measure and see if it will fit in my dining room.

I am pretty proud of myself. I made the kids and Brian's gifts this year. The kids got a candy jar with their name on it, Brian got one also. Then I made Brian a word book. It turned out real nice I think. He seemed to like it. I hope so cause it spent a lot of time on it. Well you can see it, the pic is of my first attempt to be crafty as far as gifts go.

Reality Check...

2009-02-10T16:06:00.000-08:00

Lyci fell asleep reading, I love it !!!!

The kids and I are sitting at the table, they are eating dinner.
I am waiting on Brian to get home before I eat.
We are talking about our day, I am giving them grief about their ability to make straight A's.
THey are giving me the I am doing my best answer.
Lyci's phone makes that annoying you got a text sound.
Christian is coughing because he is still fighting off a cold.
Riain is arguing about not wanting to finish his dinner.
I am trying not to fall asleep because I was at school from 7:20-5:30.
The house is a mess.
I am behind on laundry.

What else can I say?

Ohh, How I love to buy bags...

2009-02-07T20:14:00.000-08:00

Tonight, after dealing with sick kids all day, Brian and I snuck away and had dinner at Chipotle, and then we went to Bloomingdale's. I have been trying to talk myself into a new bag, but just have not bitten the bullet yet. Tonight I did. I talked myself out of it, and then Brian insisted I get it. I love it when he takes control and makes me buy something I want. So now I have a new Michael Kors bag, he likes to keep me happy.

Thanks Brian!!!

What do you say?

2009-02-05T16:17:00.001-08:00

The other night I went to tuck Riain into bed, I laid down with him and we started talking. I am not sure how we got on the subject, but the conversation turned to where do babies come from. Well I was ready to yell for Brian, before I did, I asked Riain well where do you think they come from. He looked at me with a real grown up look and says, " Well mommy, I know there are 2 ways a mommy gets pregnant." I said ok, tell them to me. His first answer was very smart. He says well I know that sometimes a mommy can not get pregnant and a doctor has to help her. I said yes Riain that is true. Then I asked well what is the other way? And his answer just shows the innocence of this sweet boy.

He said well when a mommy and daddy love each other and they decide to have a baby. God sends the baby down and the mommy takes a deep breathe and she becomes pregnant. I was relieved. My response was, Riain you are absolutely right. I gave him a kiss and a hug, tucked him in and left his room with the biggest smile on my face.

Riain is not a typical 9 year old. He is very smart, he knows a lot about planes, wars, anything military, and about going green. But he is still so young in other ways. Thank goodness I dodged that bullet, I am not ready for the conversation with him.

Keeping My Baby Daddy Happy

2009-02-03T17:50:00.000-08:00

Brian has been wanting a truck for a while now, so we broke down and bought one. He now has a Supercab 4x4 FX4 F150. He loves it. We go everywhere in it. Now we can haul in it, and go buy that trampoline we have been promising the kids. There are so many things we are going to be able to do.

Now Brian has his truck, I get the next new car. Not sure what I want, but it will have to be big. The kids are getting to small for my little car.

So here's to hauling and muddin (just kidding, but we do live in redneck country)!!!

My weird need...

2009-01-22T18:08:00.000-08:00

Ever since I went and saw my sister in law Val back in the early fall, I have had a need to drink wine. One night for dinner we had this great wine that was really good. Ever since then I have wanted to have that type of wine. I love the idea of having a glass of wine after the kids go to bed. But here is the question, how do you know what is a good type to drink is? I guess you ask people that drink it often.

Any suggestions please let me know.

Money in my pocket

2009-01-20T15:13:00.000-08:00

Today I went to the grocery store to get supplies for tacos. I decided I would do a little coupon shopping. I saved a total of 15.16. My bill was a little under 60 dollars. The best deal I got was on cereal. We eat alot of cereal in this house. I am talking boxes a week.

Here is how it broke down:

Kellogg's Frosted Flakes and Apple jacks were buy one get one free. One was 2.14 and the other was 2.15. They ring up both and cut the price in half. This means you can use two coupons. Each of my coupons was 1.50 off. So one box was .65 cents and the other was .64. you can not even get generic cereal for that. I forgot to meantion that they were the bog boxes that were normally like 4.69 each or something close to that.

I am so into this, and Brian could not be happier with my new money saving thing. I will keep you all up to date on how I do. DO not worry I will not post all the deals. I hope to inspire some of you to save money. I will be glad to share any ideas I find.

Well I am off to PTA.

A whole new underworld

2009-01-19T17:14:00.000-08:00

A friend of mine has opened my eyes to couponing. She clips coupons and saves a ton of money. So, I have decided to join the madness. I am sure up for saving money, especially now that the kids are eating A LOT more. I love the idea of saving money on groceries and being able to spend it elsewhere, like on my new obsession with kitchen gadgets from Williams-Sonoma.

I have spent all day clipping coupons, organizing my coupon holder, and getting ready to head to the store. I hope I will be ready to shop by Wednesday. There are people who walk into the store and walk out with groceries and money from the cashier. They did not have to pay for anything. This takes practice I guess, so I am going to hopefully get there.

So here's to saving money and spending it somewhere else.

New Year's Resolution

2009-01-05T15:03:00.000-08:00

This pic has nothing to do with what I wrote about, but I love it and you can see how cute our bullie is. We love you Patton !!!

I am tired of the same ole resolutions. This year I am not vowing to lose weight ( even though I want to) or exercise (even though that is the plan). I am going for some fun resolutions. Here goes...

1. Learn to make homemade biscuits and gravy just like Granny did. I have no idea how this will turn out. I called my wonderful Aunt Annetta and asked for a tutorial (hers are almost as good as Granny's) :) I think there will be a lot of trial and error.

2. I need a hobby. My hobby is grading papers and frankly it is boring, and really not a hobby because it is not fun. So Lyci and I am going to take scrapbook classes and card making classes together. We will see how this goes, but I feel good about it. At least I can try and do this in the off season of football. Football season does not allow for any Destine or Brian time.

3. Next is to stop eating out so much. Now that the kids are practically grown, our out to eat bill is never under 40 dollars. So, I am going to stop the madness and we are eating at home. The way I look at it is that yes I have to cook, but on the up side that is more money to put towards my new hobby.:)

4. Last, but not least, is to finally hire that cleaning lady that Brian has been offering. I have this idea in my head, that I should be able to work and keep up with the housework, but it is too much. If my job did not require so much HOMEWORK(wait aren't I suppose to assign homework, not have it myself, I need to look into this) then I think I would be ok. But I choose the wrong profession for not having work at home, I need help and since it is against the law to hire someone to help as a teacher, I can for sure hire someone to help me as a housekeeper.

Well there they are. I hope I can conquer all of these resolutions. I had the kids think of some also, so we have a lot to work on this year. I hope your New Year has started off as great as mine has.

Christmas...

2009-01-01T19:44:00.000-08:00

Christmas was great this year. We really had just the best time together. It was a small Christmas, the only person missing was Grandpa. The kids were spoiled rotten as usual. All got IPODs!!

The next day we were going to the store and the car was silent. As I looked back into the back of the car, there were all three of the kiddos, listening to their own music. Time changes so quick, not too long ago, there was screaming and crying, now just smiles. I do not believe I am thinking this, but I kind of miss those days. Time with them all is so precious.

Ok... back to Christmas. These are just various pics of the kids and the dogs. I love the picture of Christian and Patton. Patton is so cute in his antlers. The grey dog, is Jay. We rescued him to play with Patton, but my mom loves him so much, he is going to go live with her.

Isn't it funny how much time we spend preparing for Christmas and it goes by so fast. I hope you all had a great holiday. Happy New Year.

A Dream Come True

2008-12-12T17:32:00.000-08:00

During our trip to Dallas, we were able to tour the Cowboys stadium. It was awesome to see Brian throwing passes to all three of the kids and them catching them and running into the end zone. They kids were able to run down the hall and through the giant helmet just like the players do. This was a day we will never forget.

Second Opinions

2008-09-27T11:03:00.000-07:00

I have never had to get a second opinion before, but we are getting one next week. Riain hurt his knee during practice and I have one doctor say it is broken and another say it is not. I am irritated because the specialist did not even look at the xrays very carefully.

It is fuuny because we take doctor's word for gold. But Riain is in pain and I am no doctor, but I know my son. I pray his knee is not broken.

He is so upset, because he is out for at least a few weeks. If it is broken, then maybe the season. He is honorary team captain until he can play again. But it is no fun on the sidelines.

So keep your fingers crossed, say a prayer, and maybe the next doctor will look a little closer.

Forever and a Day

2008-09-21T18:48:00.000-07:00

So I know it has been forever since I have blogged, but I rarely have time to breathe. I thought I might check in and give everyone a little update of what's going on in the Nelson house. Where to begin...

School is going good for everyone. Riain is doing well in third grade. Alycia has adjusted nicely to middle school. She has been very responsible with everything. Christian could be better. It is always a struggle with that boy, but we are trying to work through it. As for me, my class is great. I am lucky, I have a good class. They can get a little talkative, but so can I. I have been very busy, there is so much more then just teaching. I think things are starting to level off. I hope so at least.

Ok, let's move on to sports. Christian is playing 7th grade football. His team is 2-0, so that is cool. He has had a few plays, but he is loving it and that is all that matters for now. Riain's team is 2-2. We won our game yesterday. So that was awesome. Riain had a sack, it was so exciting. He was so happy. Alycia is in training for cheerleading tryouts. We have her in a cheerleading class and she is going to get private lessons. I want to make sure she is ready for tryouts in the spring. She has been working on her roundoff back hand spring and I think will have it down in a month. The private lessons will help her get her jumps and all the other things that will help her make the squad. It is harder then it used to be and way more competitive.

Well I guess that is all the news for now. I will post a few football pics next time. Hope you all are doing well. Until next time...

Look out South Paulding Middle School...

2008-08-08T15:13:00.000-07:00

Yesterday Lyci took part in the day in the life of a 6th grader at her new school. It was hard for me to leave, I think I told her bye and I love you about 10 times. SHe was like "Ok Mommy," and " You have already told me bye." Heartbroken and a little, scratch that a lot sad, I left and came home. Well the morning went by and I went to pick her up. She was all smiles and had exciting info to tell me. She has a list of clubs she wants to join, she talked to the cheerleaders and got some tryout pointers and opened a locker on her first time. All in all she had fun.

All summer long I have dreaded this. Lyci going to middle school. She is so sweet and innocent, I just do not want to lose that. I was so worried because most of her friends are going to another school. And there she is, she just takes off and does not look back. I guess we are lucky to have a daughter like her. I know she will do great. Brian reminds me, that she has a level head on here shoulders and then I feel better.

As we start the next three years of middle school, I get sad and happy. I was told something yesterday that sums up how our children change in Middle school.

"They are not the same children they used to be, and are not the people they will become."

As school starts in a week, I know my daughter will not be the same innocent, little girl she has been the last 11 years, nor will she be the woman I know she will become. I raise my glass and invite a drink to the next three years, may we all make it out of middle school in one peice.

Future Rockstar

2008-07-11T19:59:00.000-07:00

Tonight Lyci has a couple of friends over and they are rocking to rockband. What a good night after a tough week. I love the fact that she can just be a happy kid. I hope you all enjoy the video of her.
Not only can she sing, but she is one heck of a drummer also.

Jackson

2008-07-07T14:30:00.000-07:00

November 10, 2007-July 6, 2008. Rest in peace Action Jackson. We miss you very much.

Now it feel like summer

2008-07-02T13:19:00.000-07:00

We got new deck furniture and love it. We bought from Georgia Backyard. What is neat about this set, is that it is made out of a wood better then teak, it is called Jaharrah wood. It is supposed to do really good in rain, so we are hopeful. I have put the wood protector on it and so we should be good, right? I hope so. The umbrella and seat cushions came from PotteryBarn. I think they all look really good together.

Brian is busy building a platform for the kids to jump into the pool. We have been fighting that stupid thing all summer and now I think we have kicked its butt. The kids went swimming today and had a blast. We bought this robot pool cleaner made by the people who make the romba vacuum. Of course, the kids named it Walle. So Walle is busy keeping the bottom looking good.

Here's to many days enjoying the hot sun in the pool and many nights enjoying a cold beer on the deck. Hope you all are having a fantastic summer.

Date Night

2008-06-28T17:52:00.001-07:00

Brian and I decided to venture out to the movies last night on the opening night of Wanted. Well lets just say it was crazy. We tired to catch the 9:45, but it was sold out. How in the world could it have been sold out that late in Douglasville? One of the great unanswered questions of the universe. Anyways, we bought tickets for the next showing which was 10:25. So here we are in the closed mall and ALOT of time to kill.

Finally time to go and get a seat. It was a madhouse, people everywhere. They were actually pushing to get into the theatre. What has this world come too? I could not beleive it. We get in and the theatre fills up fast.

Now about the movie. It was AWESOME. I would recommend anyone going and seeing it. The stunts were really cool. And hello I am a girl. It is an action movie, but ladies it is worth seeing and you can make your man happy at the same time. So I am giving this movie an A+, (get it because I am a teacher, hehe). Go and see it and let me know if you feel the same way.

Puppy Love

2008-06-26T15:29:00.000-07:00

So we knew we when decided to buy a bulldog we would have to deal with health issues... well Jackson is in skin issue he--. He was diagnosed with a type of hereditary mange, and now he has a severe skin infection. He has some hot spots and is just one big sore. He is going to be fine, he is on like 4 types of meds. I feel so bad for him, the sores look like they hurt, but he is such a great dog. At the vet, he was so good. He let them do all the things they needed to. Hopefully he will be better soon. The vet bill was crazy, but what makes it easier to swallow is that our vet is amazing. Villa Rica Animal Hospital is great, they care about your pet and also try and cut you a break when they can. What else can I say, Jackson is worth it all.

5 things I know

2008-06-23T11:56:00.000-07:00

Ok... so I have been reading up on how to blog. Everything I have read says to talk about things that you know. So I thought I would tell you 5 things I know.

1. Christian, Lyci and Riain are growing up way to fast. ( here is Lyci doing the 5th grade walk- her last walk in the halls of elementary school as a student)

2. From my parent side- the summer is dragging on but from my teacher side- it is flying by

3. Having a pool is not as fun as the idea of having a pool

4. Family is the most important aspect of my life

5. Having Brian work from home has been the best thing to happen to our family in a long time

So there are a few things I know. Until next time... Laugh and Love often

First Time

2008-06-22T17:17:00.001-07:00

Ok... so I have been reading my sister in law's blog and thought I should start one. I have no idea what I am doing so bare with me. I know that this will be a great way for you all to know what is going on in the lives' of all five of us, well six if you include Jackson. So stay tuned... and thanks for reading.

Here is a crazy pic of the kiddos.